Sunday, September 9, 2018

So, it has been a while. My pocket book and inner Dave Ramsey had to pull the reigns on any more big projects over the last year or so, but my mind has continued to dream about house updates.  I came to the realization that our master bath--which I should mention, has been truly the only update I've wanted to do since we moved in, but you know, big projects like roofs, plumbing, etc., have taken priority, leaving my master bath on the back burner--will be at least a few years away, especially if I don't want to have Dave Ramsey guilt (does anyone else get that?!). 

Well, I do have a little bit of cash I have squirreled away and realized recently I could do a bandaid update that would make me quite happy for at least a few years.  What was the first thing on my agenda one might ask?  The shower.  It has grossed me out since we moved in--mold, stains on the textured plastic flooring, and there was loads of mold in the shower window.  I scrubbed, I cried, I googled, I Pinterested, I strategized.  Four years later, here we are with a only slightly cleaner shower stall (that is dirty the second dirty feet hit it), and no budget for a total remodel.  Could we do it ourselves--you know, tile and stuff? Sure, but right now, we have to be realistic and time is not on our side. 
I Pinterest searched how to DIY makeover a shower stall and came across ThriftDiving's  tutorial on how to remove a shower door, which happened to look ALOT like mine.  She said it was easy. I wasn't so sure, as I'm known for making some pretty big blunders on DIY projects, but I thought, "What the heck? What's the worst that can happen, I leave a gaping hole in our already yucky shower?"  I thought, "Surely my husband can fix it like the other hole I created cleaning it one day, right?"
Dope! There's the hole my pointy scrub brush made!

Oh, yes, on the husband note. I didn't FULLY discuss this project with him and decided asking for forgiveness instead of permission was better this time, because by-golly, I had a vision! So, screw by screw I began to piece out the lovely brass shower door (I should also mention for a few months, I tried to tell myself to embrace brass because it is making a fixture-comeback these days!).  It took some finagling, but I got every single piece and bit of caulk scraped and out of the house before my husband noticed (this was all done during a nap!).  
yep, that is foul, I know, I know. 

Barf. Fo reals.  But I can't say I'm surprised....
I think he approves, or rather, he didn't show extreme disapproval.  I plan on refinishing the shower with the paint/shower paint, and also stenciling a honeycomb pattern over our existing vinyl flooring.  That is probably at least a month out, but here are the pics of the (sort of before) and after of the shower.  I totally forgot to get a picture of just the shower door before, but I think one can use their imagination!
There she be. Texted this snap to my sister and realized she had the exact same shower curtain. This is not the first for us to twin on something when we live states away from each other.

Stay tuned.  I have just ordered a honeycomb tile stencil that I plan on doing over the whole floor (I'd leave it, but it really is quite yellowed which I'm not sure you can tell from the picture).  Any recommendations on keeping little boy feet away during this phase??!!

Here is what I plan to use from GypsyMintStencils Etsy shop:

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Here's to having a productive and joyful week ahead!


Sunday, October 29, 2017

Staircase Update

This past winter taught us words we did not know, temperatures we had not seen.  One of these words/phrases was "ice dam".  I chuckled when my dad was clearing his roof, and told him to get his 60 year old bottom off the ladder and into the warm house before he ended up in the ER--"Dad, I've lived here longer, there is no such thing." I mean, look at this beautiful white stuff, how could it be destructive?

Fast-forward 24 hours and we were victims of the dreaded "ice dams".  Water leaked in from both valleys of our house creating damage in our upstairs and also downstairs. I did see some positive to this, however.  This damage did extent to our hardwoods, which were in desperate need to be refinished.  My thought: just a deductible and we will shiny, happy, clean floors.  Well, one bummer to this was our staircase was not part of this equation, and at the time, we didn't feel it was right to spend the extra dinero on refinishing this as well.  So we went with the economical approach and crossed our fingers that the floors and stairs would match (otherwise, I would have chosen my own "perfect stain" out and painted the stairs later).  Well, they didn't.  We didn't take into consideration the age/fading of the stairs to the fresh refinished look of the the hardwoods.  The hardwoods boasted a slightly reddish to pink look and the staircase had a more yellowed look.

This cannot be so, I cannot deal.  I toiled, I Pinterested, I Houzzed to find a fix to this using paint (as this is what I could afford at the time).  Finally, I found my inspiration piece.  This would be the ticket.

I did at one point, attempt to get the railing sanded to wood, but then my hubs and I got lazy--watching a good Netflix show in the after-kids-asleep-hour seemed way more enticing than sanding relentlessly. We gave up and just pained it all white.  It is not too bad, but don't look closely because our "slacker" approach is written all over it and will have to be revisited sometime soon. 

I appreciated my freshly painted stairs, but couldn't get my my mind off the more completed look stair skirting would boast.  We had some money saved and agreed it would make this a nice focal point as it is the first thing you see when walking through the door. Well, I will point out that all contractors and all handymen are not created equally, and my low "cost" did come through on the finishing touches, which we will ultimately have to finish on our own. Eventually. You know, that time you think will come, but probably won't until it is time to sell your home?

Here is a picture of the before.  Yes, it is not a true before, but in true Erin fashion I forget to take the before and have to do an "in between" shot.  Just try to picture the railing was all honey-oaked color before I got reckless with the paint. And no, I wasn't going for the distressed look, I was just already attempting to sand it off!

And this one below, is where I thought I could sand it all down and stain, which in my heart of hearts, would like to still do. Someday. In the future. When Netflix doesn't call me name so eagerly. 

Finally, here is the completed stairs, skirting and all. I kinda like it, blemishes and all. And in case you are wondering, the walls got fresh paint too. They are now Revere Pewter by Benjamin More and the stairs are Urbane Bronze by Sherwin Williams.

Please excuse my formatting/spacing/alignment in this post.  I'm having a heck of a time posting this!

Hope you are having a great fall!


Friday, December 30, 2016

Master Bath Ideaboard

Hope everyone is having a wonderful Holiday season.  This Christmas brought sadness to many I knew, but brought with it a valuable lesson for us all--cherish each and every moment with your friends and loved ones.  In a moment, they could be gone.  Consider each day a gift from God, regardless of our circumstances, battles, toddler tantrums, messes to cleanup, failures, and the list continues--they are each a gift, a blessing.

The last few months brought me to a realization that contentment is a choice, and it has to be an active choice.  Every day we must choose to appreciate the things we have, and not live in utter want for the next best thing.  This is a hard thing for me to digest because I am always trying to do "home improvements" and I realized there will be seasons where I just need to be content--to be settled.

This year I decorated our house using things we already had, not buying one thing for Christmas decor (well, maybe a few strands of replacement lights for our tree!).  It may not have been "on course" with the current trends of Holiday decor, but I felt my house was the prettiest and coziest it has ever been.

I have found that in seasons that I need to be settled (i.e. not spending/not doing) I function best by cleaning and organizing to deal with this "energy". I still daydream about future projects, but I try to keep them as just that--daydreaming and not preoccupying.

Here is a little glimpse into my Pinterest/Houzz "daydreaming" Master Bath Remodel Board.

1. Layout of bathroom that will work for our current bathroom...with some serious plumbing re-do's.
2. Benjamin Moore "Revere Pewter" to match our guest bathroom. Love this color and its warmth, class, and versatility.
3. Soaker tub. This is pretty much for me only. Which also involves a lock on the door, a glass of wine, and sound-cancelling headphones. Is that too much to ask?!
4. Calcutta Gold/Oro hex marble/honed tile for the shower flooring.  Love this in our guest bathroom, and will probably duplicate it when the time comes.
5. I love the panelling on this shower set up.  And the bench too, because it would be a great spot to set my glass of wine.
6. Pewter travertine, herringbone layout.  This is actually in our guest bathroom and hallway downstairs.  I love it, and since I cannot convince my husband to do wood, or wood-looking tile in our bathroom, this will probably be the flooring of choice.
7. I love this slightly rustic-looking vanity, but will have to find one with a bit more storage.  Not sure I can really throw everything in a basket and be cool with it.  I also can't Kon-Mari my way out of my bathroom necessities.  By the way, isn't this mirror fantastic?  I found this on Houzz (which is pretty obvious by my screenshot!) and did some serious searching.  It is called the Drake Mirror by Gabby that is roughly $850.  Yep.  I better start selling some organs if I want that one.  A girl can dream, right?

Well, there ya have it! This is probably a good couple years away, but it feels good to have direction for the future and daydream of course =) PS, any suggestions on how to do dream/vision boards without Word and 5,000 screenshots gladly appreciated!

Wishing you all a Happy, Healthy and Peaceful 2017!  Hug your loved ones, and savor each and every moment with them.

God Bless.


Monday, November 14, 2016

Wow, it's been awhile. Life has gotten a bit crazy around here.  There is so much to catch up on, but I'll just start with where I left you hanging--the guest bathroom remodel.  We had all sorts of hang ups in the end of the project, which is for another day, another post--I just want to focus on the finished project.

My goal was to learn to operate our DSLR camera so I could post some wicked awesome pictures of how the bathroom looks in my eyes.  Well, I did try, but the pictures just couldn't do it justice (read: my skills are just no up to par!) and all of the pictures are yellow, and oddly enough, not level. This got me to thinking, maybe one of my legs is significantly shorter than the other and I'll just never have level pictures.   Hmm... Anyway, I decided enough was enough, and I just needed to post some pictures from my phone, since they weren't giving off the yellow-yuck hue that our camera was.  These pictures are not really Pinterest, Houzz, or quite frankly, blog-worthy, but I think you'll get the idea.  Heck, maybe someone could even tell me what I'm doing wrong with my camera.

So, here we go!

Here is the vanity I had built to look like the Restoration Hardware Printmaker's Console.  It is probably my favorite piece, the only thing that went as planned, and the thing I am most proud of from this remodel.  She saved me over $1500, and I got the type of marble I wanted on top.  The man who built this piece was crazy nice, done with the project early, and I think, totally nailed it!

Here is the purdy faucet I chose.  It is a gooseneck from Signature Hardware in polished nickel.

This is one of my favorite parts of the shower, that originally, I thought was going to destroy my "vision".  You see, I had planned on the shower ledge/shelf going directly in the center as the sort of "eye candy" to make the shower pop.  But, as remodels would have it, we found the plumbing ran right in the center, and it was not an option.  I was crushed, but had to move on.  My MIL suggested making it a little larger to make it "visually interesting", which I thought was a good plan--and you know what? Having it offset from the center makes the cleanup SO much better.   It doesn't get flooded with water, which in my book, is a total win!

Oh, there she is, that beautiful tiled shower I've been waiting for forever!  My first shower in here was magical.  I poured some La Croix (not wine, because, well, it was 1:00 in the afternoon (when I finally had time to shower) and it seemed a wee bit early to celebrate with the spirits ;) Pretty sure I could have stayed in here all afternoon, but I could only let me 4 year old play on the computer so long while I showered.  There--I admit it. I totally stuck him in front of a computer game so I could shower in peace while my other bambino napped.  Guilty as charged.

This is a shot of the flooring we used both in this bathroom and into the hallway and the laundry room that are all "next door" to this bathroom.  It is the Pewter Travertine from Contempo Tile, and I absolutely love how it turned out.  I knew it was a bit risky on several levels using travertine 1) with 3 boys/men in a house and 2) because it definitely breaks some rules in the design world from what I've been told.  Good thing I'm not a designer and don't have to follow rules, because I didn't--and I absolutely love how it turned out!  Who says you can't mix a travertine tile right next to a subway and a marble?! Not this girl!

By the way, these are my happy toes at 0530 before I had to go to work.  Happy toes, happy nurse, happy wife, happy life.

A better view of the tiled hexagon tile in the shower.  It is a honed marble that has pieces of calacatta gold marble to sort of tie in the calacatta marble top on our vanity. And, who doesn't love a good hex tile, am I right?! 

That about sums up this little guest bathroom (or as I have called it "mama's shower") remodel. Hope you enjoyed stopping by The Gray Abode.

Thursday, September 22, 2016

Fall Home Tour--A Simplified Approach

One of my favorite seasons is fall here in the Northwest.  You see, I grew up in a desert in Southern California where there were two seasons--hot summer and mild summer.  Leaves didn't fall.  The only thing that changed color was the grass, and that was because a different kind of grass got planted to grow in the cooler months.  My first fall in the Northwest was when I was 18 and had moved here for college.  I remember driving and walking on the sidewalks just overwhelmed by the beauty of all the colors of the leaves. It was as if my childhood dream of jumping on piles of leaves (like I'd seen on cartoons) was finally coming true! Each year, I love this season more and more, well, maybe not the leaf-raking part, but all other aspects I suppose.

My approach to life is a pretty simplified one.  When it comes to decorating, I like to focus on a few areas and sort of "sprinkle" a little fall into our home. Biggest reason you might ask?  Clean up--I hate the cleanup. Too many knick knacks make dusting hard--not that I really dust all that often--but if I were to do more dusting, it would definitely get in the way.  Also, the big cleanup at the end of that particular season.  Too much stuff means I cannot conquer it in one nap time, and as most mothers know, projects are measured in "nap time" units.  Like, cleaning my baseboards will take me "3 nap time units" which mean I will instantly deem in unnecessary.  I'd much rather watch an episode Jill & Jessa: Counting On because that is only "1 nap time unit" and, well, is much more enjoyable. All that to say, if decorating takes me much more than 2 nap time units to put up, and 2 units to take down, it's not gonna happen.

So, here is my Farmhouse Fall Home Tour.  I must confess that I really, really need to learn to use our camera.  I'm terrible at it, and thus resort to my phone.  My promise to you--I will learn in the next month!

Want to know a funny thing?  This mantle is way different than I usually do for fall.  These pictures were on a wall that just got painted, and I put them up here for safe keeping while I painted.  Then I realized I loved seeing pictures up there.  My hubs is not a fan.  He thinks it looks cluttered.  I might be in a bit of a stubborn phase right now, and fear if I take them down, they won't make it back up, so I decorated "around" it all!  The only "fall touch" I put up here are some of our hops.  They look beautiful as fresh cuts, and even more beautiful as they dry out.

This is in our kitchen where our fish "Spaghetti" usually resides.  Well, he is no longer, so I'm using it for a spot to show off this beautiful plate from Home Goods.  It was my only fall purchase last year.

Our dining room hutch.  The birds, the lamp, and the book were all my late grandma's, who also loved to decorate.  Something I realized I picked up from here was using "found" objects in everyday decor.  I remember her collecting pods from her trees and pine cones while camping to decorate for the different seasons. As a kid, I thought it was weird, especially when she'd pull the car over to get a few "cuts" of something.  Well, I've become her.  My mom does the same, so perhaps, its genetic.  

My "tablescape" is not really complete, but I'll give ya an update when it is.  I need to go to the market sans kiddos so I can really take my time and pick out my perfect pumpkins for here, but we all know how that goes!  For now, here is my unironed runner (sorry, Mom! I'll get to it one of these days!),  more hope (big surprise), and candles.  I really love candles, did I mention that before?

This guy is my purchase for this year, from Home Goods, of course!  She's made of leaves and is just the coolest.  

It's kind of hard to get the angles right to show you this area, but I promise, it's prettier in person!  Remember, I am camera challenged right now.  

Some fresh maple leaf cuts from our yard, and of course, a sprinkling of hops.  

And last, but not least, the changing colors of our hydrangeas.  

Hope you enjoyed my little tour, and thanks for stopping by!  


Wednesday, September 14, 2016

Remodel in Full Swing

Right now, I'm feeling a bit like a kid at Christmas. Our first remodeled bathroom is starting to take shape, and our flooring is almost completely finished. After all the planning/dreaming/imagining, we are starting to see some progress. So far, I have learned a lot about remodeling.  First thing is staying on budget is extremely hard, especially in an older home.  There are bound to be obstacles "lurking" behind the walls, under the flooring, and in your plumbing just waiting to be discovered and give you sleepless nights.  Second, if at all possible, be on site throughout, or at least in the beginning of the day.  Communication between the contractor and myself has been difficult  on days that I work because grabbing a cell phone call when you are mid-endoscopy procedure isn't exactly Kosher. Third, make sure to ask about permits and like before the contractor give you a bid, that way, there aren't any "surprises" later.  I'm sure all have some more pointers soon! 

So, here is a little sneak peak of the flooring, that is somewhat finished in our laundry room.  Ignore the mess--our home is full of dust, debris, and clutter right now. What's a girl to do?!

Notice the laundry going? I've been without this guy for over a week! Feel like I'll never catch up, but how can I complain when I've got these pretty floors to walk on now! There will be a pocket door added here to make this room WAY more functional.  In case you are wondering what type of flooring this is, it is Pewter Travertine from Contempo Tile.  The gals I worked with here were super helpful and let me make a complete mess of all of their displays so I could see my vision play out. Another perk of this place--they had a kids' play room which allowed me to focus on the tile, and have happy kiddos to boot.  Score.  

Since our garage is currently a storage spot for the construction stuff, I've had to wait on fall decorating.  Oh, and I broke the string that gets me into our attic for said decor, so I'll have to wait for the hubs to fix it for me.  Since I'm antsy, and can't wait for him to fix it, I decided to bring a little of the current Idaho "fall" into our home.  Just a few clipping of our trees, remaining blooms, and hops, and I instantly had a little fall effect.

Hope you've enjoyed a little update of The Gray Abode for now.  Have a great day!


Friday, September 2, 2016

Farmhouse Inspired Screen Door Makeover

Almost the minute we moved into our home 2 years ago, the screen door on our front door got some "love" from one of our boys.  Fast forward a few months (now the youngest was walking) and it quickly was getting double the "love" from both of our boys.  Before we knew it, the screen door was breaking as fast as we could fix it.  Here we are 2 years later, with an ever-growing upkeep list with our home, and we needed to address it. To buy a new and well-made one was going to have a hefty price tag, so we began to think.  And by we, this time, the true credit as goes to my hubs.  He said, "what if we made the bottom part solid?" Light bulbs went off in my head.  I remembered countless farmhouse style front doors that had this "X" on the bottom half, and I knew I just needed to find a picture of a screen door so my sweet Daddio could help me figure it out.

So, here is the picture I sent him.  My poor dad probably loathes Pinterest between my mom, sister and me! I wanted the bottom, however, to be completely solid, and thus boy-proof.

Here is the screen before. The picture was taken after one of several repairs to the screen where it had been pushed out by tiny humans.

And here is the after.  Whatcha think?! Not bad for a less than $15 fix!

Hope you all have a wonderful, relaxing and safe Labor Day Weekend!